Culture Shock-3

Saheli

Ei topic theke prithibir bibhinna pranta samparkhe anek kichhu jana jai... Ami Ukraine e ese bhashar proved er jonye anek kal ekhankar manusher sathe aporichito chhilam...tai khub eka lagto...kintu kichhu dekhe r kichhu sune ei deshtake jatotuku jenechhi tar madhye kichhu jinis amake abashyai abak korechhe....

1. Ukraine khub gorib desh bole sune esechhilam....kintu Kiev e manusher bilasitar sesh nei...ekhane 10-12 bachharer chhele meyeder satheo sarbakhon thake adhunik design er mobile....jeta ami anya kothao ghotte bishesh suni ba dekhini...

2. Meyera ekhane khub swadhin o dapute....kono dokane aj porjanta kono purush salesman dekhini....sudhu daroan chhara....meatstore theke furniture sarbotroi sudhu mohila kormi....emonki metro station er ticket counter eo sudhu mohiladeri adhipotto...chheleder jibika bolte bhari kayik porisramer kaj...athaba sikkhita hole kichhu office eo tader dekha mele

3. Chhele meyeder biye hoye gele ma babar sathe sudhu moukhik samparkha thake...parent der kono dai dayitto chhele ba meye neina...jato buro ba atharboi hok tader nijeder byabastha nijeder i korte hobe...setai samajik niyam...tai burira swiper, cleaner, ba flat er watchlady hisebe kaj korleo adhikangsa buroder dekha jai dustbin theke fele deoa khadya ba beer sangraha korte....gramer dike bayaskader kaj korei khete hoi....

4. Khub lajja o aswastir sathei likhchhi j Ukrainian meyera jounokormi hisebe biswabikhyato... eder kachhe nijer sarir bikri korata amader samajer mato aporadher kaj noi...garam kale etai ei desher mukhya byabsa....khub uchha padastha kormi na hole gor porta teenager theke suru kore 30 er ase pase jader bayas tara jathesta gourober sathe ei byabsate lipto...ebang etao sunechhi j march theke october porjanta prithibir bibhinna pranta theke bibahita ba abibahita rosik nagorder anagona chole ekhane....smajik swikritir sathe meyeder emon nijeder panya kore felar ghatanata satyi i amake aschorja korechhilo...

5. Eder poshak o amake chomokito korechhilo...eto rong milie dami poshak pore ba make up kore protiti mohila ...era kayekdiner jonye ghurte geleo jamar sathe match korie ekadhik bag, jacket o shoe nie jai...hok na se boro boro hunter shoe...fashin er sathe kono compromize chole na....esob dekheo abak hoye bhabi ki kore era nijeder gorib bole

6. Beshirbhag sishur shoishob kate tar babar sathei....amader deshe ja bhishon bhabe biral drishya...

7. Sob theke abak korechhilo jeta seta holo j ekhane kono bhabei english er procholon nei...khaoarer packet e anek bhashar lekha thake.. english thakena.. Internatinal airport eo poriskar English e katha bolar mato loker abhab...

8. Eder j abhyesti amake sob theke birakto korechhe seti holo j era kacha machh khai...kachha arthat rode sukno kora machh eder kachhe priyo khaoar...sudhu machh keno eder adhikangsha khaoar i ardha seddha ba kacha upokaran die toiri..

etosober madhyeo kichhu byatikrom abashyai achhe...Ukraine chaichhe Europian country hisebe porichiti pete...tai kichhu manush chesat korchhe English sekhar ba bolar.... kichhu sikkhita mohila abashyai nijeder jouno byabsa theke sorie rekhechhen bohudure...kichhu santan abashyai tader parents er proti sanbedanshil......eder ekti dik besh chokhe pore...r taholo Kiev er protiti barir interior khub sundar....r eder j bishoyti amake khub anandito o gorbito korechhe seti holo era bharotiyoder khub samman kore...karon eder biswas bharotiyara anek unnata jati tai eder 45bachhar agei tara tader swadhinata labh korechhilo...era bharotiyoder sanga pachhanda kore...

Culture shock- 2

Suparna Mitra Bhattacharya

UAE: UAE te medical was almost free kichudin agey porjonto-o. amar meye jonamaye c-section kore. we had to pay nothing except for the cabin charge. eta kintu INDIA te bhabte parbo na! r ekta bishoy boli, ekhaney kintu , unlike kolkata, bhishon bhabe normal delivery k importance day. amar meye breech position chilo tai c-section hoyeche.

o jonmabar por amake ekta onno hospitaley transfer kora hoyechilo, amar kichu somossar jonno. sekhaneo same bepar. sudhu room charge . r 4 bela puro hotel ey thakar moto khabar diechhe ora.songey help hishebe amar ma o amar songey chilen in the same room. shei hospital ey amar ki examination na hoyechhe. kintu kono poisha lageyni.. for tests and medicine.

actually shob resident der ekta kore medical card day era, on entrance to the country, which has a minimum fee. seta thakle kichui pay korte hoyna . (i am talking about government hospitals) govt hospitals r very very well equipped with latest technolgies and manpower. amader desher government hospitaler moto bhable cholbe na. kintu recently maternity hospitalser policy change hoyeche bole khobor peyechi...ekhon onek charges added hoyeche .

Culture Shock

Papiya

UAE: Riyadh e ami jaini, ami chhilam AlKhobar ( near Dammam) Ami March April 2007 e gechhilam :Abeya( kalo overcoat jatiyo poshak )amar bor kine rekhechhilo, r oita porei ghurechhilam, sunechhilam je,okhankar rastay naki religious police ba "muttaya" ghure beray random aar tara code na manle lokjon-ke harass kore. tai baire porar matro 2 to jama niye gechhilam, R oi dumas pray Pathander moto oi duto jama porei ghurechhi. but sotyi bolchhi, jaja sunechilam oirokom kintu hoina, ami jor diye bolte pari. age Saudi te ramjan er somoi khabar er dokan diner belay bondho thkato, kintu ekhon kichhu kichhu dokan khola thake.

r Saudi te batchelorder keu bari bhara dite chai na, amar bor chhilo ekta hotel pray 6 months, pore office er compound e shift kori n okhane kintu kono restriction nei, maxm bideshi, ami capri poreo ghure beriyechhi.

Balcony j ekebarei nei tao noi, tobe beshir bhag bari i ekdom plain, jekhane balcony achhe keu bose galpo o korena , ba jamakapor o shukai na. Dammam e kichhu Bangladeshi achhe jara oibhabe jamakapor shukai, r ekdin dekhechhilam amar hotel er janladiye , hotel er samnei ekti barite ekjon mohila coat rod e diyechhen.

r local police kintukonodin amader interfare /harras koreni, even okhane j Cornisch achhe (Qatar eo mone hoi achhe) okhane jaoar pothe ekdin rastay checking hoyechhilo, mohila dekhle kono kichhu r jigges kore na.

Mohila poilice, der anekei foreigner (like airport checking) r nurse beshirbhag i Philipino r kichhu Keralites Muslim. Nursder uniform holo kichhuta short Salwar kurta type, r mathay cap. Kichu Indian meyekeo dekhechhilam sref salwar kameej poreghure berate. ekjon er kotha sunechhilam, Rojar somoi din er belay rastay khabar khachchhilo, take police thanay niye giye bolechhe, bhetor e bose khan , samne khaben na. tobe eta shona kotha....

Office e Ramjaner somoi beshi restriction nei. karon anek employee ekhon non muslim, amar bor hotel theke khabar niye jeto , r jara muslim oder alada prayer room achhe sekhane giye prayed kore.

BONDHUTTO: EK ANWESHA

Rimjhim Dasgupta

Bondhutter poridhi? darun lagche topic-ta. poridhi perobo bolei to "orkute" aasha. khub bhalo lagche ekhane notun bondhuder peye.. gorbo hochche j Banglar Bodhur'r bodhura sudhu radhen na, chul O badhen.. amar kache bondhutter mane ANNWESHA..> KHONJ.. nijeke onyer chokhe dekha.. jar chokhe ami nijer protibimbo dekhte pabo, sei to amar bondu. bondhutter kono boyesh ba lingo ba shrenee nei. amar bondhu jara, sobaike somoy moto jogajog na korte parleo tara mukh phiriye nebe na, bondhutter govirota temni thakbe. protibimbote jodi kono chhaya pore, seta soraabar daye du tarofe e thakbe. tobei na amar annnweshan jari thakbe.. BHALO THEKO BONDHURA

Amra ki anno achiever der proti ignorant noi...?? Ekti alochona...

Suparna Bhattacharya , Jhum, Moumita

SUPARNA : Besh koek din dhorai ei khabor ta India te jhor tulche-- amader deshe cricketer chara anyo khehloar ra tader prapyo sonman demand korche. pore mone hocchilo sotti amader lojja paoa uchit amra 20/20 World Cup er prapti ta ke ato beshi kore importance dichhi baki jano kono khela e noi deshe....!! kano amra tader prapyo sonman debo na? samanno akta cricket match jetar jonno sara rat baji potka photano hoi..., Pankaj Advani er World Champion hoate kojon potka photalo? kal Viswanathan Anand abar world champion holo akta baji to futte sunlam na ta hole ki tader achievement er kono mulyo nai? Era desher nam sara biswer dorbare ujjol kore ar nirobe ghore fere na media oder ba oder ma babar pechone dourodouri kore na kono boro boro company oder sponsor kore na... ?.Cricker der achievement ke choto na korei tomader jiggas korchi oder ki prapyo sonman amader deoa uchit noi....?

JHUM : Suparna ei topic ta darun. vison prasonggik r jukti-songoto. Suparna ekdom thik bolecho. amader dese onek rokom kheladhula hoi. kintu matamati susdhu kintu hoi cricket nie. ami nijeo cricket khubi valobasi. kintu ta bole sotti eta kokhonoi banchonio noi je sudhu matro 1ta khela kendro korei jabotio uttejona r chitkar chechamechi. sotti amader desh jokhon 20-20 Cricket World Cup jete tokhono je anondo hoi, eki bhabe Viswanathan Anand jokhon chess e World Champion hoi tokhon amader desher tototai mukh ujjol joe othe. tahole keno amader deshe onyano khela ebong kheloarder songe erom boimatritto sulov bebohar?? tara ki kichu kom kosto kore khela ta khele naki tara desher mukhta ujjol kore korche na? otyonto ashchorjonok bepar eta. kodin age football eo india Neheru Cup jiteche. Hoccky te Asia Cup jiteche. kintu sesob nie kintu kothao kono matamati nei. onyo khela ebong kheloar der songe amader desher manus ebong songbad madhyom er erup bebohar tader kintu khubi kosto dei. tader utsaho ke onekangse komie dei. onno khelar kheloarder sob somoi mone hoi ki hobe khele amra to r kichu pabona. cricket e Yubraj Singh 6 ball e 6 ta 6 mereche bole take 1 koti taka dewa hobe. kintu Viswanathan Anand je ekai sara biswo ke harie champion hoe asche take amader desh ki debe? eta kintu vabbar somoi eseche.

MOUMITA : Topic ta bhishon interesting!! katha ta bhishon sotti, Indian Cricket team ke dekhle r oder ekta achievement e eto takar chorachori dekhle mone hoy 'tela mathaye tel deoya hocche' ...!! amader deshe aro anek sports ache, jemon Football, Hockey r katha prothamei mone pore. echarao Athletics e gramer diker chele meyera khub bhalo kore.......kintu sei khela gulo te na ache taka, na ache glamour! na prochar madhyomer hurohuri! sei khela gulo ke procharer aloye tule ana hok. r mone rakha dorkar 364 din Cricket niye maramati korbo r 1 din onyo khelar jonne....ta noy kintu!!

Aj cricket team jeete ele player der koti koti taka, gari, bari deoya hoy, kintu Hockey team jeete ele 5-10 hajar taka dhoriye deoya hoy..!! tai khub sangoto karonei ebar 3 jon senior hockey player hunger strike e bosechilo.

Majhe majhe ei eki Cricket team er hotasha-jonok performance (jodio jani khelaye har-jit dutoi ache) dekhe mone hoy 'keno o-patre eto dan??'

JYOTSNA SAPUI---Ekti alochona.

Nabanita, Baishakhi, Moumita

Nabanita : koekdin dhore Anandabajar-e police news ta porchi.sub inspector Jyotsna Sapui-er opor tar swosurbarir lokjon-er nirmom(pashobik kathata byabohar korlam na,karon poshu-ra erokom kaaj kore na) atyachar chalacche. ei prosongye tomader ki motamot?

Baishakhi : Jyotsna Sapui Das... ei ekti ghatana meyetake ekta alochonar bastu kore tullo... news paper khullei ajkal roshalo galpo... swahanubhuti janabe ebar nana katripokkho...!!

meyeti ekti shahoshi police kormochari... ebong tar bor ekjon engineer... kintu tar borer bari theke ja achoron pelo.. ta dekhe mone hoy... je shikkhai sudhumatro manush ke manush korte sahajjo korena, meyetir shoshurbarir lok ja proman rakhlo.....

kicchu takar jonne jara nijer barir bou ke eibhabe maren.. tara ki tokhon eta bojhen ba kheyal koren... je bou ta to nijer ccheler... jehetu porer barir meye.. tai chaliye jao nirjaton... hoyto er ageo joytsna ke shojjo korte hoyecche anek kicchu... madhusudan nakom amanushti koto torture korecche segulo to jana noy amader

jai hok... asha kora jay saraswati ar madhusudan ke khub taratari jail e poucchono hobe... and Jytosna shere uthe abar tar kormo jibon shuru kore sustho mone...

Nabamita : ektu anyorokom bhabna.... prothome-e boli ami kono rajnoitik bitorko parte chai na.Jyostna-r swosurbari-r lokjon-er shasti hobe ki na hobe ta niye-o montobyo korbo na. amar kharap laga ta anyokhane.ekti meye porashuno sikhe- police dept e kaj korche. arthanoitikbhabe swanirbhor.tarpor-eo etogulo din kichhu ashadhu lokjon(hok na taar swasurbari)-er atyachar nirobe sajhyo korlo. je maye-ti ke samaj-er dusto daman-er responsibility deoa hoyechhilo,se tar porobar-er anyae-r biruddhe-e konodin mukh khullo na. Baishakhi,tumi likhechho "sahoshi police ".satyi ki se sahosi? hain! media-r doulote sokoler sahanubhuti ei meye-tir dike.kintu ei prosno ki theke-e jaye na je,eto durbol-chitto ekti byakti police hisebei ba kotota nibhorjogyo?? je nijer surakksha-e korte pare na,se ki samaj-ke surakkha dite sakkham?

BAishakhi : manusher jibon dubhage bhag hoye jay.. ekti kormkhetrer jibon.. arekti grihobodhu.... amra office e joto proffessional , barite nishchoi ta noi...

thik temni Joytsna tar kormokhetre nishchoi sahoshi cchilo... kintu tar duty hours sesh hole bari fire se hoyto nijeke grihobodhu kore rakhto...

majhe majhe shanti bojay rakhar jonne kicchu byapar accept korte hoy... tabe shab byapar noy... hoyto Jyotsna mukh fute kicchu bolar agei tar opore shuru hoy pashobik ottachar...

Moumita : Jyotsna Sapui er ghotona ta pore amaro thik etai mone hoyechilo.... je meyeta somaj e annoke rokkha korar bhar niyeche, se nijekei rokkha korte parlo na...!!

anyaye je kore r anyaye je shohe, dujonei kintu doshi, ha abossoi anayekarir dosh anek anek beshi. Jyotsna police hoyeo nijeke rokkha korte parlo na, tahole grame gonje ba hoyeto sajano attalikate koto meye eibhabe shojyo kore chole shashurbarir attyachar....!!

hye re amader pora desh......r ei desher meyera!!! kiser je eto protibondhokora Jyotshna der moto shikkhito meyeder jara anyayer protibad korte pichiye jaye......ajo bujhina!! ei ki amader shobhyotar dike egiye chola????????tahole a kemon agrogoti?